Saturday 13 February 2016

Kiss me where the sun don't shine...

This week has seen me hit the year mark since the operation! I cannot quite believe it and am not sure what to think really as I purposefully tried not to have too many expectations - it seemed pointless and a recipe for disappointment. Room 302 in Paris seems like an age ago now. Clearly though, I am happy with progress and glad that I made the decision to have the operation. I am also pretty pleased with how I have dealt with it all as it certainly is a lengthy recovery and life has been quite hectic in the meantime - life goes on though thank goodness, even if can test you at times. As I have said before, I have learnt a lot - not that I would necessarily have chosen to, but you have to play the cards in your hand!

There is still some progress to be made but hopefully I am on the right track. I am sitting for about 4 hours over a day now and hope that when the milder weather kicks in this will also help. I have begun driving the car short distances which has been good - the pure joy of being more independent and not reliant on lifts or lying in the back unable to see!! The lower back and abdominal tightness continues as a result of all the standing and probably a little bit of tension remaining when I do sit. I am continuing to persevere with sitting and exercise on the basis that this will reduce over time - and the benefits of exercise outweigh any short term discomfort. I am now doing a fairly advanced yoga class twice a week and swimming in between. Despite being pretty knackered from the last year I am in OK shape which is nice. I can't wait to be able to have a kick about with a football or go for a jog. If I get back on a bike at any point then that would be an added bonus!


In other news, my wife is pregnant so there will be a new little person about the place soon. This is slightly daunting but great to have something new and positive to focus on. It also means nobody asks me about my back anymore - bonus!! It does mean that life is likely to become more demanding though and I have had to start stepping up and doing more, which over the first 6 months or so was less possible. The lyric above is from one of my favourite songs and I hope that as we look ahead it applies to me!! It seems quite apt in every sense, and it is definitely about time.